have you ever faced a situation in which to decide or make a choice, but you are filled with self-doubt because of considerations of "Can not I?" "Do not - do" ... ... ... .... "," If ... ... then what? "As your friend with full trust self-giving spirit with the answer "ah ... ... .... it's easy", ... .... Who's afraid? "
You and your friends have differences that are influential in determining success, ie how to see things could be from the positive side, it could be from the negative side, or as we know it "Negative and Positive Thinking".
Positive thinking turned out to provide an opportunity for someone to become a leader. Positive thinking is therefore an important material in the training given the CEO (Chief Executive Officer) in the world manager. Even the success of Miss Universe Th. 2005 was largely determined by the principle of life that is always thinking positive. This is evident from his confession at the time the jury asked: "What do you think is most important in your life? he confidently replied: I am always learning and trying to think positive. With positive thinking will provide a strong enough impact on World Peace. And it's what makes the answer was elected Miss Universe Th. 2005.
It means to build positive attitudes and behavior. There are 12 tips how to build a more positive attitude, among others:
1. You can choose to be optimal.
A pessimist's focus to the negative (like looking at a glass of water as half empty / water that was not there). While optimists see a positive focus (like looking at a glass of water as half full) Siapakan better perspective? Who is more likely to be happier, more confident and more certain?
2. You can choose to accept everything as it is
This does not mean that you become a spirit and not give up. This means you are not struggling, crying, and banging your head against the wall when things go wrong. Actual behavior that makes you no helpless victim (which eat that extra weight on your spirit). Accept everything as it is, not what you imagine today. The past is gone, the future still a mystery, and when this gift, that's why today is called "present = gift". Therefore the current load as well - better.
3. You can choose to recover quickly
Develop a positive attitude does not mean that you will never experience pain, suffering, or disappointment. In addition, develop a positive attitude does not mean you should ignore the problem. Problems also always have the reverse side. If you fail the test, study harder or find a supervisor. If you lose friends, friendship fix it, or make new friends. If you do not like your looks, you develop a fantastic personality.
4. You can choose a story
Begin with the grim refused, smile, If you gave a positive word, positive thinking and positive feelings, the people and positive things will be attracted to you.
5. You can choose to be enthusiastic.
It means to build positive attitudes and behavior. There are 12 tips how to build a more positive attitude, among others:
1. You can choose to be optimal.
A pessimist's focus to the negative (like looking at a glass of water as half empty / water that was not there). While optimists see a positive focus (like looking at a glass of water as half full) Siapakan better perspective? Who is more likely to be happier, more confident and more certain?
2. You can choose to accept everything as it is
This does not mean that you become a spirit and not give up. This means you are not struggling, crying, and banging your head against the wall when things go wrong. Actual behavior that makes you no helpless victim (which eat that extra weight on your spirit). Accept everything as it is, not what you imagine today. The past is gone, the future still a mystery, and when this gift, that's why today is called "present = gift". Therefore the current load as well - better.
3. You can choose to recover quickly
Develop a positive attitude does not mean that you will never experience pain, suffering, or disappointment. In addition, develop a positive attitude does not mean you should ignore the problem. Problems also always have the reverse side. If you fail the test, study harder or find a supervisor. If you lose friends, friendship fix it, or make new friends. If you do not like your looks, you develop a fantastic personality.
4. You can choose a story
Begin with the grim refused, smile, If you gave a positive word, positive thinking and positive feelings, the people and positive things will be attracted to you.
5. You can choose to be enthusiastic.
Welcome each day with enthusiasm. Carry out your duties with great enthusiasm. getting you excited, then more and more people around you were feeling and doing that, "take heart ... ..!"
6. You can choose more sensitive.
If you are more sensitive to potential problems, then you can be more prepared to deal with and even evasive. You can also sensitive to a positive experience. for example, when you hear the announcement of the test team or a new club, then record the time and place and the Plan to follow, you will get something new.
7. You can choose amusement.
If you do something stupid do not miss the opportunity to laugh at themselves. That is one great joy of life. If you are a lot of laughs, you will be healthy. The laughter was out certain chemicals that stimulate your body and can help you grow in a healthy, jokes and laughing is healthy.
8. You can choose sport
Sportsmanship means to accept defeat with a positive, smiling, shaking hands with the victors, not blaming others or circumstances for losing it. This attitude can win any friends if you do not win a game or competition. "Sportif" is also no need to mock the losers when you win.
9. You can choose humility
If you are truly concerned for others, they will see your good quality even if you do not advertise it. They will not feel that you are trying to manipulate them, do to others because of your Lord
10. You can choose to be grateful
consider, perhaps so much to you thankful. gratitude makes you smile. It makes you happy with your life. and others were pleased by you. grateful to provide tranquility for yourself.
11. You can choose faith
For some, it means believing in God Almighty, or other higher. faith means believing that everything will be fine for you, and that you can make everything yourself. If you expect to fail, may reach the mark.
12. You can choose hope
6. You can choose more sensitive.
If you are more sensitive to potential problems, then you can be more prepared to deal with and even evasive. You can also sensitive to a positive experience. for example, when you hear the announcement of the test team or a new club, then record the time and place and the Plan to follow, you will get something new.
7. You can choose amusement.
If you do something stupid do not miss the opportunity to laugh at themselves. That is one great joy of life. If you are a lot of laughs, you will be healthy. The laughter was out certain chemicals that stimulate your body and can help you grow in a healthy, jokes and laughing is healthy.
8. You can choose sport
Sportsmanship means to accept defeat with a positive, smiling, shaking hands with the victors, not blaming others or circumstances for losing it. This attitude can win any friends if you do not win a game or competition. "Sportif" is also no need to mock the losers when you win.
9. You can choose humility
If you are truly concerned for others, they will see your good quality even if you do not advertise it. They will not feel that you are trying to manipulate them, do to others because of your Lord
10. You can choose to be grateful
consider, perhaps so much to you thankful. gratitude makes you smile. It makes you happy with your life. and others were pleased by you. grateful to provide tranquility for yourself.
11. You can choose faith
For some, it means believing in God Almighty, or other higher. faith means believing that everything will be fine for you, and that you can make everything yourself. If you expect to fail, may reach the mark.
12. You can choose hope
hope your positive attitude is perhaps most important, the basis for all other positive attitude. What do you expect? What are your dreams? What are your ambitions? You mean in this life? If you want to consider these questions you've become a hopeless individuals. Hope is something with wings, that up to the soul and sing without words, and never stops at all.
I hope your hope is reached, and start from today. This paper on edit and edited by Moh. Ghozy, Counselors Agency Consultation "Partner of Youth" from the book "What Do You Stand For", translated under the title "Character Building for Youth", Barbara A. Lewis, 2004
I hope your hope is reached, and start from today. This paper on edit and edited by Moh. Ghozy, Counselors Agency Consultation "Partner of Youth" from the book "What Do You Stand For", translated under the title "Character Building for Youth", Barbara A. Lewis, 2004
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